STOP COMPARING AND START LIVING

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I got an inspiration to write this from a blog that I just found out today. With the same title, I will write the version of mine. I am high key agree with the title. Human, almost most of them do feel this way. We tend to live by comparing ourselves to others about achievements, marriage age, successful definition, and such. I do, still do until now. However, it is exhausting to live by the haunted of others people live. These are the examples :

1.      A is working in private company while B is working in National company. A is very jealous to the point she is very disappointed on herself. In the end, A feels depressed.  
2.      A is married at the age of 24 years old while B is still single. B got the burdens of society, especially family, with the same questions every day like “When will you get married? Where is your boyfriend? Still single in this economy?”

To be honest, I relate to those examples so much. Imagine log in to Instagram, see your friends’ feed about working in big company, winning competition, and even get married. How would you react? Happy? Of course for them, I am happy. Could not lie that I feel a tiny envy toward them. As you know, I am trying. Trying to look for another job. I applied almost every day but it resulted nothing but disappointment. Days ago, I was informed that I did not pass for a new work. I felt down, not having a willing to work, and wanted to go home. Sigh.

I read that blog and realized that comparing ourselves to others is stupid thing and exhausting. The only person who can compete with is our past, not other people. Let them live in their way and let me live in my own way. There is no exact rule about being successful, the age marriage, or other stigma. It is just us, human, who like labeling ourselves.   

 I promise to myself that I will live my life to the fullest. I will beat my own past and promise to be a better and reach my reasonable dreams some day. Amin. Before finish this up, let me write her quote on her blog, which is surprisingly I love so much.

“Ignore what everyone else is doing and achieving. Your life is about breaking your own limits and outgrowing yourself to live your very own best life. You are not in competition with anyone else. So focus on pushing to undo your past, not other people.”


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